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Cynical…

It’s been on my mind lately.  I’m worried about my attitude.  I have so many blessings in my life – but happiness doesn’t feel the way I thought it would.  Maybe you can relate?

Maybe life in the 21st century is wrought with constant stress; continuous motion; always under-the-gun?  Maybe it’s my job?  My department operates by opposite patterns – we are continuously up against project deadlines; yet almost every meeting I attend starts late.  Maybe modern reality has replaced more traditional views on punctuality:

Punctuality is the politeness of kings. 

Louis XVIII

Maybe it’s me?  I know no one is perfect and everyone is busy.  Yet, I seem to be the only one bothered:

I have CDO; it’s like OCD but all the letters are in alphabetical order – AS THEY SHOULD BE! 

Unknown Sage

Maybe I‘m becoming cynical.  That’s not good.  According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary©:

1: having or showing the attitude or temper of a cynic: such as

a: contemptuously distrustful of human nature and motives… based on or reflecting a belief that human conduct is motivated primarily by self-interest…

What do you think?  Are people today “motivated primarily by self-interest”?  Are you becoming cynical, too?

I try to believe people are fundamentally good.  I think I’m generally trusting; and trustworthy.  But with today’s incessant barrage of spam; self-serving leadership spin; common people constantly being conned by crooks and congressman alike; is it now natural to become “contemptuously distrustful of human nature”?  Maybe Elmer E. Wyland, Founder of the Westernaires (www.westernaires.org ), was a closet cynic:

The more I know adults; the better I like children.  The more I know children; the better I like horses.

Today, will I feel you are motivated primarily by self-interest?  Will you be contemptuously distrustful of mine?

I don’t know – I actually smiled when I read this passage in the book Ship of Gold in the Deep Blue Sea ©:

If you asked anybody in the worldwide offshore community… who was the best ROV operator in the business?  they would say, John Moore.  If you asked them, Who is the most temperamental, cantankerous sonofabitch they’ve ever been around? They would say, John Moore…  I have a foul temper, Moore says of himself, always have and probably always will.  I am firmly convinced that the world is mostly populated with idiots…I didn’t like taking orders from people that are stupid…

Gary Kinder

“The most temperamental, cantankerous sonofabitch around”.  Has a nice ring to it, LoL!  Maybe the world is “mostly populated with idiots”.   I hope not – that would be worse than cynical; that would be downright pessimistic:

Pessimist

A person who not only expects the worst, but makes the most of it when it happens…

In 2019 I need to re-find that trusting, good-natured person I know I can be.  I need to be less cynical; more optimistic:

Optimist

The person who makes it possible for the pessimist to know how happy he or she isn’t. 

Unknown Sage

Not to continue harping on cynical, but … Maybe it’s not being “happy” at all that should be important.  Maybe it’s something else:

I’m not happy, I’m cheerful.  There’s a difference.  A happy woman has no cares at all.  A cheerful woman has cares but has learned how to deal with them. 

Beverly Sills

That’s it Beverly!  Thank you!  We all have “cares” – it’s how we chose to deal with them that matters.

OK then everyone, let’s look past our cares – and our cynicism – let’s be cheerful in 2019!

GAP

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One Comment


  1. Nathan Sumner
    Feb 22, 2019

    Good piece. Let’s get together soon.

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