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New Year resolutions…

Did you make any resolutions this year?  Do people still do that?  What will you resolve to do differently in 2020?  Where did the tradition of making New Year resolutions come from anyway?  Oh well, at least health club membership sales reps are happy about it LoL!

Evidently this is more than just an American thing – although maybe we’re doing it wrong:

I tried the Japanese method of decluttering where you hold every object that you own and if it does not bring you joy, you throw it away.  So far, I have thrown out all of the vegetables, my bra, the electric bill, the scale, a mirror, and my treadmill. 

Unknown Sage

This year’s New Year resolution carries additional weight – it’s not only the start of a new year; it’s the start of a new decade.  The procrastinators are happy about that!  They could make a new decade resolution and not feel guilty about it until ten years from now.

Procrastination is the art of keeping up with yesterday.

Donald Robert Perry Marquis

I suppose many of us have made New Year resolutions to address our financial situations before.  That has been an annual ritual in my household for a while now. So far, I’ve managed to keep the bill collectors at bay.  (Of course, I worry that they are making New Year resolutions to do something about that.)  Still, our favorite, Unknown Sage and I are hopeful 2020 will work out:

Billings’ Law

Live within your income, even if you have to borrow to do so.

Yes, personal finances are a common topic when it comes to New Year resolutions, true?  Evidently, that’s not the case with our elected officials.  I read today that our national debt will exceed one trillion dollars this year.  One trillion!  We all know that “they” think about “our” money in their own unique way.  My home state of Illinois elected this official to the House of Representatives in the 1960s:

A billion here, a billion there, pretty soon it adds up to real money. 

Senator Everett Dirksen

Much has changed over the past 50 years.  Sadly I think, when it comes to taxes, government spending and the national debt, much remains the same.

If Patrick Henry thought that taxation without representation was bad, he should see how bad it is with representation.  

The Old Farmer’s Almanac ©

OK then, now that we all feel bad the question is begged, “What we will do about it in 2020?”  It seems in 2020 the “we” is less united along generational lines than ever.  Baby Boomers are at one end of the spectrum; millennials at the other; each dealing with financial management from our own backgrounds and perspectives.

I just read this piece published by Forbes in 2018 about millennials, their experiences, their perspectives, and marshmallows (of all things): LINK  When it comes to personal debt, it appears they have swapped the burdens of mortgages, car payments, and pending retirement with student loans and keeping up with the pressures imposed by social media.

Yes, each generation in 2020 has different perspectives and we all carry different burdens.  But 2020 will unfold for us all, one way or another.  Perhaps we can find commonality in a different set of measures; a more social approach to social media; becoming as former President George H.W. Bush once spoke a “kinder, gentler nation”.

“Kinder, gentler”… now there’s a New Year resolution for 2020 that is worth our attention, don’t you agree?

GAP

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Murphy and then some…

Murphy’s Law is famous, yes?

If anything can go wrong, it will.

But is (or was) Murphy a man or a woman?  Who does this sound like it was written by?

Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day.  Teach a man to fish and he will sit in a boat all day drinking beer.

Surely, I don’t know so permit to use the blanket, “Unknown Sage” and share a variety of take-offs from our dear friend Murphy.  Here’s my personal point of view:

Murphy was an optimist.

At least I was pleased to find out I am not as pessimistic as some:

Thyme’s Law

Everything goes wrong at once.

Thankfully, Murphy and his (or her) followers such as Hull have provided us many examples of practical, useful advice over the years:

Hull’s Warning

Never insult an alligator until after you have crossed the river.

Recently, my wife and I have been helping our third grade grandson with math homework.  It reminds me of my school experience:

Law of Algebra

You never catch on until after the test.

I know math can be challenging for others, too.  Back to Murphy:

The New Math Version of Murphy’s Law

If there is a 50/50 chance of something going wrong, nine times out of ten it will.

Speaking of my wife, her best friend gave her a book consisting of one Bible passage to read each day of the year.  I don’t think this one is in there:

Allen’s Biblical Distinction

The lion and the lamb shall lie down together, but the lamb won’t get much sleep.

Recently I wrote about the Baby Boomer generation and our place in today’s modern workforce (Link).  Then I was reminded:

Baker’s Byroad

When you are over the hill, you pick up speed.

And just when I started to get a little depressed, I was reminded that I’m not “old”:

Baruch’s Rule for Determining Old Age

Old age is always fifteen years older than I am.

At least we still have funding for Medicare, you know – just in case.  But it’s not necessarily the money I worry about:

Bombeck’s Rule of Medicine

Never go to a doctor whose office plants have died.

Of course, if we’re talking about money managed by the government that brings other worries to bear:

Wicker’s Law

Government expands to absorb revenue, and then some.

Technology today impacts our daily lives, too.  It makes me wonder how much longer before the robots take over all of our ground transportation needs.  I think that will be a good thing because I remember how humans have made car-buying decisions in the past:

Ford Pinto Rule

Never buy a car that has a wick.

Not that technology is the do-all and end-all to life’s (or Murphy’s) challenges:

Turnauckas’s Observation

To err is human; to really foul things up takes a computer.

Still, in the year 2020 we have many blessings.  Maybe we should have a parade to celebrate?  But if we do, we may want to heed the advice from Well:

Well’s Law

A parade should have bands OR horses, not both.

Finally, when I write these little ditties I always worry about the accuracy, completeness, and attributions of the quotes and short stories I use.  Wood says it best:

Woods’s Incomplete Maxims

All’s well that ends.

A penny saved is a penny.

Don’t leave things unfinishe

And to think, it was all started by Murphy.  Thanks to you – whoever you are!

GAP

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Just for fun…

When you need to decompress from life’s stress and have a little fun, what’s your routine?  Reading a book?  Working out?   Taking a vacation?

A vacation is what you take when you can no longer take what you’ve been taking. 

Earl Wilson

Starbucks is a fun stop on the way to work for many.  Fodder-4-Thought heard someone place this order:

Venti, sugar-free, non-fat, vanilla soy, double shot, decaf, no foam, extra hot, Peppermint White Chocolate Mocha with light whip and extra syrup, please.

(Taking a breath now!)

My wife and I made a weekend getaway for fun recently; headed to the high country.  On the way we drove through Bailey, Colorado and that mountain town reminded us of being in bear country:

A bear who, displaying a $5 bill, had entered a bar and ordered a beer and; the owner of the bar directed the bartender to give the bear the beer, saying that since the bear didn’t look very smart to only give it 25 cents in change.

Having done as he had been instructed, and having watched incredulously as the bear placidly sipped the beer, the bartender finally could no longer contain himself and sought to engage the bear in conversation.  “You know”, he said to the bear, “we don’t get many bears in this bar.”  To which the bear is said to have replied, “at $4.75 a beer, it’s no wonder.” 

Norman R. Augustine

Ah that Norman R. Augustine; former head of Martin Marietta Corporation (now Lockheed Martin) a huge US Government aerospace contractor.  His sense of humor is fun!  Norman shared more fun in Augustine’s Laws ©:

Law Number III:

There are no lazy veteran lion hunters.

Law Number XIII:

There are many highly successful businesses in the United States. There are also many highly paid executives. The policy is not to intermingle the two.

Law Number XIX:

Although most products will soon be too costly to purchase, there will be a thriving market in the sale of books on how to fix them.

Law Number XXXI:

The optimum committee has no members.

Law Number XXXVI:

The thickness of the proposal required to win a multimillion dollar contract is about one millimeter per million dollars. If all the proposals conforming to this standard were piled on top of each other at the bottom of the Grand Canyon it would probably be a good idea.

It’s fun to poke fun at America’s political and economic policies, true?  And our elected officials view of spending taxpayer money – fun?

A billion here, a billion there, pretty soon it adds up to real money.  

Senator Everett Dirksen

Entrepreneurs are fun too:

It seems that there was a pretzel stand in front of an office building in New York City.  One day a man came out of the building, plunked down a quarter, and then went on his way without taking a pretzel.  This happened every day for three weeks.  Finally, the old lady running the stand spoke up, “Sir, excuse me.  May I have a word with you?”  The fellow answered,I know what you’re going to say.  You’re going to ask me why I give you a quarter every day and don’t take a pretzel.” The woman replied, “Not at all.  I just wanted to tell you that the price is now 35 cents.” 

William Schreyer

OK – grab your besties everyone – let’s have a little fun!  Let’s head to bear country for some pretzels and beer.  I’m buying!

GAP

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40 years from now…

Posted Mar 6 2019 by in True North with 0 Comments

I recently read a newspaper article about a trend with millennials who are borrowing from their 401(k) accounts to buy a house.  The article didn’t say whether it was their parents’ house (where they’ve already taken over the basement LoL!)  OK; OK; that’s a bad joke we Boomers tell too often.

The article suggested millennials’ retirement needs that will arise some 40 years in the future are not a priority.  I get it – 40 years seems a long way off.  Truth be told, 40 years ago I would have been holding an actual paper, newspaper.  Do you think we’ll even be reading newspapers (digital or otherwise) 40 years from now?

When I was reading the newspaper I was actually reading the “paper” on my smart phone.  I don’t know why we call it a “phone” anymore – we seem to use it for everything but making phone calls.  Do you think we’ll even have cell phones 40 years from now?

According to Fox News Tech, cellular technology was quite the novelty, “40 years ago…”  http://www.foxnews.com/tech/2013/04/03/first-mobile-phone-call-was-placed-40-years-ago-today.html  That article was published in 2013 referring to a 1973 event – actually 46 years ago.  I bet millennials think of 1973 as the Dark Ages.

A lot has been said and even more has been written about the millennial generation which is poised to dominate the workplace – and the world!

At my company not a day goes by without some announcement and/or recognition about our college recruits.  I understand our enthusiasm.  These young professionals are bright, articulate, abundant, and affordable; all-in-all, awesome!

Yet, I find the absence of discussion about my generation – Baby Boomers – a bit concerning.  Do others think we should be retired (or dead) by now?  Now Walmart is eliminating greeters.  Believe it or not – we’re awesome too!

It’s easier to have the vigor of youth when you’re old than the wisdom of age when you’re young. 

Richard J. Needham

Too old; too expensive; too inflexible; too technically illiterate; there are many pop culture; bad jokes affixed to us Boomers.  Our knowledge, skills, and experience seem no longer to be celebrated.  But really – we are not “too old”:

Leonardo DaVinci was fifty six years old when he painted the Mona Lisa.

Leonardo lived into the 16th century.  Not exactly the Dark Ages; and no – I didn’t know him personally!

I wonder what the millennials think they will be doing 40 years from now.  If they’re already spending monies ear-marked for retirement, will they not need savings in 2059?

Maybe they think the high paying technology jobs companies are hiring them for (in some cases instead of more experienced aka “older” workers) will last for the next 40 years.  Maybe they think they will earn so much money, so quickly, that they can retire early; open a boutique; and enjoy a self-employed lifestyle that will carry them through to their sunset.  The optimism and the possibilities seem limitless.

But wait a minute… unless I’ve succumbed to Alzheimer’s or Dementia this week, it seems to me that 40 years ago those were the aspirations of my generation!  Then life happened:

Life is what happens when we’ve made other plans. 

Susan Jeffers

Well, maybe today’s youth have everything figured out.  But just in case, they might consider upping their contributions to some kind of account they will rely on when their children’s generation are ready to take over the world (and their jobs).  That day may arrive sooner for them than 40 years from now.

GAP

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Luv rules…

Tomorrow is Valentine’s Day – everyone, it’s not too late.  There’s still time to do something special for that special person.

OK, OK – so I can’t take credit for creating this awesome display of love for my love.  That was someone else’s awesome display of their love for their love.  But I can take “observation credit” for stopping along the roadside while driving through this western Illinois farming community to take the picture, can’t I?  I think my wife will give me credit for a little kind-hearted, photo-plagiarism because I know she knows tomorrow:

Love rules without rules. 

Italian Proverb

Who says men are oblivious and have no powers of observation?  OK – so a billboard is hard to miss; not very subtle.  But observing that man’s demonstration of love reminds us all that tomorrow, no assumptions; no taking her for granted; no obliviousness; no subtleties are allowed.  On Valentine’s Day, we must shout our love for our love from the top of the mountains!  Of course, we hope our women do the same for the men in their lives:

You know “That Look” women get when they want sex?  Me neither. 

Steve Martin

Tomorrow may be a special day in my marriage, but our relationship over the years has taken constant care (and patience).  Thankfully, my wife has patience:

Patience strengthens the spirit,

sweetens the temper,

stifles anger,

extinguishes envy,

subdues pride,

bridles the tongue,

restrains the hand,

and tramples upon temptation. 

George Horne

It’s easier to be patient with the little things I suppose.   But when times get tough, the most convenient person to argue with, vent to, and take our frustrations out on is often our partner, true?  Life seems to move so fast; people seem to be so stressed; the media inundates us with so many sensationalized issues.

I don’t know; are meaningful, loving partnerships easier or harder to find these days?  With everything racing at a break-neck pace, who’s responsible for maintaining a healthy, loving, long-lasting relationship?  Well, here’s a view from Wyatt Webb:

You are 100 percent responsible for 50 percent of any relationship.

Carrying more than ½ the load you say?  Yep – you and my wife, too.

Thankfully, my wife and I are still in love after all of these years.  We will do something quiet this Valentine’s Day; we enjoy our quiet time together – always have.  We’re blessed with sharing many common interests, so spending time together and “decompressing” from our fast-paced life is a nice retreat.

Like you, our conversations will span a variety of topics; children; friends; happy memories; love.  Of course, when we’re together we will also synchronize our calendars; debate upcoming projects; disagree on priorities; discuss business; and almost always review our finances.  Yuck!  Necessary I suppose, but certainly not very romantic.

Yet this Valentine’s Day I will be reminded:

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. 

Mignon McLaughlin

So here’s to February 14th – Valentine’s Day.  May you enjoy it with someone special in your life.  If you’re lucky enough to be in love, may you cherish your quiet time together; sharing common interests; being patient with life’s challenges; relishing the restorative results of romance.

And if you’re with someone but you’re not yet sure if he or she is “the one”, don’t worry – trust your gut feeling:

Love is not finding someone you can live with; it’s finding someone you cannot live without. 

Rafael Ortiz

Love rules without rules on Valentine’s Day – and every day.

GAP

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Christ’s birthday…

Merry Christmas to all!

Wishing you a day of peace, hope, joy and celebration with family and friends.

Of course, Christmas is more than just one day, true?  Whatever our spiritual beliefs, may each of us find meaning to our life during this season in a way that lasts throughout the entire year.  So here’s to looking back and celebrating 2018; and to looking forward to an even better 2019!

Lest there be any confusion, may we be reminded of that which was important this year, and that which wasn’t.

We are reminded by bankers to be of good cheer:

A little boy received a new drum for Christmas.  Shortly thereafter, his father came home from work and the mother told him, “I don’t think the man upstairs likes to hear Georgie play his new drum, but he’s certainly subtle about it.  “How do you know”? asked the father.  “Well, this afternoon he gave Georgie a knife and asked him if he knew what was inside the drum.”

Herbert Prochnow

We are reminded by the gospel to be satisfied with who we are not what we bought:

You’re blessed when you’re content with just who you are – no more, no less.  That’s the moment you find yourselves proud owners of everything that can’t be bought.

Matthew 5

We are reminded by the novelists to remember (and be thankful for) our “fortunes”:

Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has many; not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some.

Charles Dickens

We are reminded to offer His blessings to you and yours from me and mine.

GAP

Vacation…

I just returned from vacation; actually, a “stay-cation”.  Hermited for a few; just me, my wife, our dog and our horses.  No deadlines; no stress – just horse manure; dog treats; relaxing; and recharging!

A vacation is what you take when you can no longer take what you’ve been taking. 

Earl Wilson

We sprint for as long as we can – then rest and recharge via vacation.  And when I vacation, I unplug.  Do you?  I know… when I returned to work Tuesday, I had 289 emails waiting for me, too.  I’m still catching up.  But that’s OK; when I was gone, I was “gone”.

During my vacation from my full-time job, I actually worked in my other job – my wife’s company.  We staffed a booth at Taste of Colorado Thursday through Monday; 7:30 am until 10:30 pm.  15 hour days in 90-degree heat – now she’s ready for a vacation!

No rest for the weary.  One’s heavy workload is due to one’s own choice. 

Unknown Sage

Truth be told, we don’t have a high-stress jobs.  Stress in our world is self-imposed.  We take what we do seriously.  For those of you like us I know you can relate – we are all professionals at our profession, don’t you agree?  Perfection may not be demanded by others, but we professionals believe we should do our best to the best of our ability.

Work for professionals like us is fulfilling.  And for those of us lucky to be in fulfilling professions, we would like to enjoy this fulfillment for as long as we are able, true?  That premise coupled with the start of the football season, brings Hall of Fame quarterback Johnny Unitas to mind:

Live today, and every day, to the fullest; with awe and enthusiasm; because when you die, you’re dead for a long, long time.

This time of year, we hear of NFL players who don’t want to retire; still want to play in the lime light; don’t know what to do next.  The problem in athletics is Father Time is undefeated.  We all have to find our “next” in our lifetime.

And now I’m back, I’m rested; recharged; and ready to re-engage with my fulfilling work.  I continue to support my wife and her company – no rest ‘til Brooklyn for her I’m afraid.  Thanks Beastie Boys!

But that’s OK – she loves the company she launched four years ago as her “next”.  She has never been so engaged.  Even at our age, she and I found our wonderfully fulfilling “next”.  Still fending off Father Time; with awe and enthusiasm!

Not everyone though.  According to survey after survey in 2017 employee engagement is at historical lows.  Certain recent research suggests as many as 70% of employees are not fully engaged in their work.  70%!  Did they not take a vacation?  Or when they were gone, were they actually not “gone”?  Didn’t know how to “unplug”?

Can it be as simple as simply unplugging when you’re on vacation?  Or is there more to it?  Do 7 of 10 employees today really hate their job?  Scary!  Maybe we need to lighten things up a bit:

Oh, you hate your job?  Why didn’t you say so?  There’s a support group for that.  It’s called everybody, and they meet at the bar. 

Drew Carey

Come on 70%’ers; before hoping for some miraculous “next” without engagement – get out of the bar; take a vacation; unplug; and then get back in the game called life.  Johnny Unitas would if he were here today.

GAP

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Christ’s birthday…

Merry Christmas to all!

Wishing you a day of peace, hope, joy and celebration with family and friends.  Thank you in advance for permitting me to re-post this little ditty – it’s one of my favorites.

Of course, Christmas is more than just one day, true?  Whatever our spiritual beliefs, may each of us find meaning to our life during this season in a way that lasts throughout the entire year.  So here’s to looking back and celebrating 2016; and to looking forward to an even better 2017!

Lest there be any confusion, may we be reminded of that which was important this year, and that which wasn’t.

We are reminded by bankers to be of good cheer:

A little boy received a new drum for Christmas.  Shortly thereafter, his father came home from work and the mother told him, “I don’t think the man upstairs likes to hear Georgie play his new drum, but he’s certainly subtle about it.  “How do you know”? asked the father.  “Well, this afternoon he gave Georgie a knife and asked him if he knew what was inside the drum.” 

Herbert Prochnow

We are reminded by strangers not to lose sight of our common sense:

On most brands of Christmas lights:

“For indoor or outdoor use only.”

(As opposed to…what?)

Unknown Sage

We are reminded by the gospel to be satisfied with who we are not what we bought:

You’re blessed when you’re content with just who you are – no more, no less.  That’s the moment you find yourselves proud owners of everything that can’t be bought. 

Matthew

We are reminded by the novelists to remember (and be thankful for) our “fortunes”:

Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has many; not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some. 

Charles Dickens

We are reminded by the politicians (of all people) to remember why this is a holiday to begin with…

How many observe Christ’s birthday; how few His precepts.  O ‘tis easier to keep a Holiday, than Commandments.

Benjamin Franklin

We are reminded to offer His blessings to you and yours from me and mine.

And to all a good night!

GAP

Just for fun…

Thought I’d lighten things up a bit today after writing a few heavy posts recently.  I mean, I know life can be tough; but it also can get better:

Life breaks us.  And when we heal, we’re stronger on the broken parts. 

Ernest Hemingway

My wife and I went on a weekend getaway with our best friends Steve and Jacquie.  Beer; bear country; and besties – we headed out to mend a few of those broken parts.  We didn’t see any bears but the trip reminded me of my favorite sighting:

A bear who, displaying a $5 bill, had entered a bar and ordered a beer and; the owner of the bar directed the bartender to give the bear the beer, saying that since the bear didn’t look very smart to only give it 25 cents in change.

Having done as he had been instructed, and having watched incredulously as the bear placidly sipped the beer, the bartender finally could no longer contain himself and sought to engage the bear in conversation.  “You know”, he said to the bear, “we don’t get many bears in this bar.”  To which the bear is said to have replied, “at $4.75 a beer, it’s no wonder.” 

Norman R. Augustine

Ah that Norman R. Augustine, former head of Martin Marietta Corporation a huge US Government aerospace contractor.  Talk about broken parts!  Norman shared his sense of humor in his book, Augustine’s Laws ©.  Here’s an excerpt courtesy of Wikipedia:

Law Number III: There are no lazy veteran lion hunters.

Law Number XIII: There are many highly successful businesses in the United States. There are also many highly paid executives. The policy is not to intermingle the two.

Law Number XIX: Although most products will soon be too costly to purchase, there will be a thriving market in the sale of books on how to fix them.

Law Number XXXI: The optimum committee has no members.

Law Number XXXVI: The thickness of the proposal required to win a multi-million dollar contract is about one millimeter per million dollars. If all the proposals conforming to this standard were piled on top of each other at the bottom of the Grand Canyon it would probably be a good idea.

Law Number LII: People working in the private sector should try to save money. There remains the possibility that it may someday be valuable again.

I know it’s not fair to poke fun at our government during an election year.  In the 1930’s America’s leading political wit, Will Rogers, couldn’t help himself:

The trouble with practical jokes is that very often they get elected.

If America’s political process doesn’t drive us all nuts, the cost of living certainly can:

It seems that there was a pretzel stand in front of an office building in New York City.  One day a man came out of the building, plunked down a quarter, and then went on his way without taking a pretzel.  This happened every day for three weeks.  Finally, the old lady running the stand spoke up, “Sir, excuse me.  May I have a word with you?”  The fellow answered,I know what you’re going to say.  You’re going to ask me why I give you a quarter every day and don’t take a pretzel.” The woman replied, “Not at all.  I just wanted to tell you that the price is now 35 cents.”

William Schreyer

Grab your besties everyone – let’s head to bear country for a few beers.  I’m buying!

GAP

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Full measure…

Our favorite, Unknown Sage once said,

Life can be measured by the number of moments that take your breath away.

Based on that metric, I enjoy a very, full-measured life.  Last Saturday was my 43rd wedding anniversary.   The journey has actually been even longer – my future wife and I met in the 7th grade.  She still takes my breath away!

Over the years, I have occasionally rocked the foundation of our comfort zone – failed investments; family feuds; job changes; you know the usual stuff.

My wife is half Irish; and I know I have provided her ample opportunities to invoke that Irish Blessing:

May you never forget what is worth remembering, or remember what is worth forgetting.

So permit me to pause from the daily drum beat of my career coupled recently with her start-up business, and devote a few thoughts toward never forgetting what is worth remembering.

Relationships – husbands and wives; parents and children; brothers and sisters; colleagues; BFF’s; no matter.  Let’s pause for a moment to focus on those special people that have taken our breath away.  It’s time to give them a call (no voicemails please); write them a letter (texts don’t count – give them the ink!); and let’s offer a full measure of thanks to our pride and joy.

Relationships – family, friends, colleagues.  The currency of a fulfilling, meaningful life, don’t you think?  And like any other “bank account”, relationships entail “deposits” and “withdrawals”.  I have benefited often from the deposits the special people surrounding me have made.  And in so doing, each of these special people have enriched my life.

What did we do to celebrate our 43rd wedding anniversary?  We worked a 16-hour day at the Colorado Springs Horse Expo, of course.  You see, this year we have embarked on a new journey – that of a family owned company.  Stressful.  In January, we worked together for 16 straight days in a “phone booth”:

NWSS_Booth

OK, it was actually an 8’x 10’ vendor booth at the National Western Stock Show and Rodeo.  And to be fair, I wasn’t in her booth morning, noon, and night. During the week, I worked my full time job.  I attended to my second job in the evenings only – and then morning, noon and night on weekends.  8’x 10’; 80 square feet; working elbow to elbow in a family owned business; with differing points of business view:

The opinions expressed by the husband do not reflect the opinions enforced by Management.

Don’t get me wrong – I believe that business success is an important contribution to a healthy relationship.  It can be another source of pride and joy.  It’s just deciding to pursue a new business “adventure” this far into our marriage can be a bit stressful.  No worries though – after enjoying a lifetime together, we are up to it!

So today I’m focused on my wife of 43 years – staying married to me, she has certainly earned it!  I’m thankful for the good fortune to have her in my life.  Along with family, friends, and business colleagues – all have made me a rich man.

And I salute those of you who enjoy long-lasting, loving marriages, too.  Perhaps we would agree in Harold Nicholson’s revelation:

The great secret of successful marriage is to treat all disasters as incidents and none of the incidents as disasters.

Now let’s all go out and buy flowers for our wife, or send a handwritten card to those special people that have enriched our life – all deserving a full measure of our appreciation.

GAP

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